Wednesday, May 18, 2022

I Went to a Funeral Today...

 Another of my former neighbors has passed away, just 5 days after turning 82. She was a wonderful, intelligent woman, and she will be missed by many. 

The funeral Mass was held at St. Raphael the Archangel. I didn't stay for the Mass, but I spoke to another neighbor, her daughter and the priest, who I didn't know at the time was a Monsignor. He asked what I remembered of the deceased (also named Judy). I said she was friendly, kind and gracious, also intelligent and loyal, and pretty,  among other things. The Monsignor asked if I wanted to give the eulogy!  I passed on that opportunity......lol

I did flowers for both of her daughters weddings, and it was a lovely experience working with them. I went to many meetings and parties in Judy's home - always beautifully decorated and warmly welcoming to all. 

Her husband passed away a long time ago, so I don't know if her children will sell her home or not. They all live far away - two of them in Europe and one on the West Coast, so I can't imagine they would want to keep it, especially not in today's booming real estate market.  

I teared up today, thinking about how many of our former neighbors have passed away since we moved there in 1982. I've mentioned before what a great neighborhood it was for all those years. We met some great, interesting people of all types, professions, religions and ethnic groups. I consider us very lucky to have bought a home there and stayed for so long.....31 years.....and I consider us extremely lucky to have met and enjoyed the company of so many nice people  (some of whom we are still in contact with).  


3 comments:

Arkansas Patti said...

So sorry you lost your lovely neighbor. A tight neighborhood is like a family and it is so hard to see it lessened by loss.

Granny Annie said...

It seems I am losing friends or family weekly now. It is so hard to be overwhelmed with memories of loved ones.

Goldendaze-Ginnie said...

Hi Judy ... I actually don't have one friend left in my age group but I have wonderful memories of so many of them ... like you do. Please give my regards to your husband and I am glad that he seems quite well with all he's been through. Hugs, Ginnie