Monday, March 20, 2006
The Earliest Memory....

Mom offered her coffee or some springish libation like iced tea, and they sat on the sofa and chatted. I sat very still, under the piano, in my hiding corner, as quiet as a mouse. Soon mom called out, "Judy, where are you? Come and meet Mrs. _______". I said nothing, and she resumed chatting, all the while wondering where I had gone. Soon, her curiosity got the better of her, and she got up to find me. It didn't take long, as she knew that was my hiding place, my special, little girl's fort. She coaxed and coaxed and I wouldn't budge. I have no idea why, but I was not about to come out and meet that woman. She finally made apologies for me, and the woman left. I crawled out from under the piano, happy to have my mom all to myself again.
That truly is the earliest memory that I have. What is yours?
John
My earliest memory is not quiet as glamorous as yurs.
I was afraid of dogs, or at least I was facinated by them, but scared when I had to touch one of pet one. I think I was probably under three and a dog was between me and my house.
I went to my grandparents house. Which shocked my family because they lived a mile away with several turns.
My uncles kidded me for years after that, saying that dog wagged its tail for a mile chasing me.
Earliest memory is during a visit to my Grandma's in Norristown, PA. I crawled up on the trunk and looked out the window. I was very confused because our next door neighbor wasn't there.
I remembered being inside a house that had a rather darkened interior. A very strange and unappealing odor permeated the air. There was sombody's funeral.
Mother confirmed that, indeed, we had gone to a family member's funeral in the days when people in that community had the showing of the deceased's body in their home, when embalming methods were somewhat different than now.
Upon recollection, I had no particular feelings about that event, just the memory of that strange unpleasant odor.
I have since read that some of the earliest memories are often associated with the sense of smell.
I try not to remember too much of my childhood...while it wasn't all bad, there were enough things that sucked...
Did you ever find out who that lady was that came to visit? I love that underneath the piano felt like such a safe wonderful hiding place for you...Do you play, Judy?
My earliest memory is when we lived at Dixons Creek about one hour out of
Melbourne on a farm. My mother used to send out Peter, me and our half brother
Jack to collect "morning's wood" from
under the gum trees on the side of the road. This was kindling to light the fires with - wood stove and open fire
for heating. I was about 4. Not half as romantic as your beautiful piano story. Cheers, Merle.
And also, now this is odd, I remember the taste of what they used to call a "sugar tit" used for babies who were colicky or teething. A small piece of cloth with butter andsugar inside and soaked in whiskey.
For me this must have been about 75 years ago.
I googled "sugar tit" and found this from the recollections of a woman in Texas who was born in 1906
"She tells how she would make a "sugar tit" and pike it into my face to quiet me. A sugar-tit is made from a teaspoon of butter and lots of sugar and tied up in a small piece of cloth. Sucking on it soothes a fussy baby."
I have a little Loose Leaf quiz I think you'd be good at.
This is one of your best posts ever. (Have I said that before?) I so enjoyed reading all the comments too. Thanks to everybody. I wish I had time to write about my trip on the riverboat from Cinci to Cleveland but we're getting ready to go to Benihana (Janapese steakhouse) so I've got to get dolled up. See you all soon.
lucyd
Mom says it's impossible for me to remember this, that I was too young, but I do. I can even describe the wall on my left was a painted mural, with a boat, palm, sand, and lots of waves in the sea.
:)
Mine wasn't so happy: I was on an OR table, crying my eyes out as the docs tried to set my legs and get me into a cast. I was born with mucked up hips and spent a good chunk of my childhood in hospital. I remember wanting my mother, and all I could see were the overhead lights, shining down like flying saucers.
But that was a one-time thing. Every other recollection of the hospital was, oddly, as a place of comfort and safety. I used to look out the window at the bustling city below and feel happy that I was inside, in a place where I could wander to the playroom and play Trouble with one of the nurses.
Thanks for letting me take a bit of a trip.
My earliest memory is of dropping my rag doll down a well- and the efforts of my Dad and brother to try and get her out! They never did! :( I was age 3 or younger!
Junie
The one I can place with any certainty is from when I had just turned three. I remember that because my brother had just turned five, and it was a big deal because he was going to start school. I remember the day he started - he got dressed up in his new school clothes, and I got dressed up the best I could, too, and then got terribly indignant when I discovered that he was going to school WITHOUT ME. It is a very clear memory. I felt cheated and wronged. Life was not fair.
I watched him walk away with my older siblings, and bawled my eyes out. I remember he held my older sister's hand, and looked back at me anxiously. He didn't even WANT to go to school. I DID. WHY COULDN'T I GO?
The reason I say "I think ..." this was my earliest memory is because sometimes I surprise myself and have little flashes from earlier times ... though I'm not so sure those are more imagination than memory.
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